Remember that the universe has bigger plans for you than those you have for yourself. You can’t take everyone with you. Send them off with love and well wishes and access to their own plans but send them off nonetheless. Not everyone is a friend but nobody is an enemy. Not everyone belongs in your heart but nobody is heartless. Just hurting. Allow them their hurt. Don’t let them hurt you.
For the anon that asked me how I deal with da haters. At the risk of sounding too woo woo (because I have my moments), I found this quote to be most helpful because more often than not those unkind words are coming from those closest to you. Shake it off.